You can not get around it. No matter how hard you try. Many adoptee has been told that they should be grateful that they were not aborted or dumped in a dumpster. I get tired of hearing that excuse. Many times it is in association with searching.
Its one of the many myths continually perpetrated with adoption. Another thing that bugs me is how society, adoption industry, and the adoption underground views us.
1. We are still children or property of our adoptive parents.
2. Besides the grateful crap, oh those mothers have moved on.
3. Oh you will hurt your parents.
On the other side,
Adoption is filled with corruption which it is but how is an adoptee supposed to reconcile their adoption with the rest of the adoption industry.
Sometimes I feel that we just can't win.
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