It has been close to a year since I was active in politics. For me, politics and its antics have taken a back seat. I was one of those that wrote the legislators faithfully every month. I had to finally quit because my personal life spiraled out of control.
I am learning to be chilled out. I wish honestly that I could get back into the adoption thing full force. I still have outside forces taken a forefront in my life. My job is the most important. I have to support not just myself, but my daughters, their father and his girlfriend. That does not make me a happy camper. I have to deal with a daughter that refuses to recognize any contribution at all that I have made in her life. She refuses to recognize the importance of her mother in her life. There are days that I have to fight to have her come visit me. It hurts. I had to threaten her with her father's potential of getting a contempt of court charge because she wanted to go to a rodeo where she would be ignored and allowed to roam wherever she wanted putting herself at risk for harm.
I spent my evening swimming with my boyfriend and his daughter. He came and got me and my girls. He cooked me an awesome dinner. He also bought me a couple packs of smokes. I get him alone on Sunday and Monday evening. I have to help him pack for his return trip to his job. It is hard to let someone so precious go every two weeks but my heart keeps growing more and more fond of him. He is really incredible so it is all worth the wait.
2 comments:
Oh my Amy, you need to quit lieing. How can you be supporting your daughters, your Ex and his girlfriend when your a deadbeat mother that dont even pay child support that you were ordered to pay. Its so sad that papers Have to be sent to The AG office to ensure its withheld from your paycheck so that your daughters will get it.
You know I didn't publish for a while because I was pissed. For those who read here occasionally, the judge had not signed off on the divorce nor decided how much exactly I would pay. My ex's attorney was trying to push that I pay longer and more money by lying about our daughter's real age. Ironic isn't it that the judge didn't give you my head on a silver platter like you salivated for. The attorney general could not begin to take out that money as it had not been ordered at the time this little comment was made. If his attorney had done things the right way, we would not have had to end up back in court a third time. Matt Malone and my ex, Donald D. Burt is not about honor. They are both about revenge. They are both about controlling me even now when our daughters do not want to live with you. You refused to let them live with me because you need that child support to support your lifestyle. Sadly our oldest DD is paying for her and her sister's clothing from her livestock winnings.
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